Book Discussion Questions:
1. At the start
of The Five People You Meet in Heaven,
Albom says that "all endings are also
beginnings." In general, what does this mean?
How does it relate to this story in particular?
Share something in your life that has begun as
another thing ended, and the events that
followed.
2. What
initially grabs your attention in The Five
People You Meet in Heaven? What holds it?
3. How does
counting down the final minutes of Eddie's life
affect you as a reader? Why does Albom do this?
Other storytelling devices Albom uses include
moving from past to present by weaving Eddie's
birthdays throughout the story. How do these
techniques help inform the story? What
information do you learn by moving around in
time? How effective is Albom's style for this
story in particular?
4. What does
Eddie look like and what kind of guy is he? Look
at and discuss some of the details and
descriptions that paint a picture of Eddie and
his place of business. What is it about an
amusement park that makes it a good backdrop for
this story?
5. Consider the
idea that "no story sits by itself. Sometimes
stories meet at corners and sometimes they cover
one another completely, like stones beneath a
river." How does this statement relate to The
Five People You Meet in Heaven?
6. How does
Albom build tension around the amusement park
ride accident? What is the significance of Eddie
finding himself in the amusement park again
after he dies? What is your reaction when Eddie
realizes he's spent his entire life trying to
get away from Ruby Pier and he is back there
immediately after death? Do you think this is
important? Why?
7. Describe what
Albom's heaven is like. If it differs from what
you imagined, share those differences. Who are
the five people Eddie meets? Why them? What are
their relationships to Eddie? What are the
characteristics and qualities that make them the
five people for Eddie?
8. Share your
reactions and thoughts about the Blue Man's
story, his relationship with his father, and his
taking silver nitrate. What, if anything, does
this have to do with Eddie? Why does he say to
Eddie, "This is not your heaven, it's mine"?
9. How does the
Blue Man die? What affect does it have on you
when you look at the same story from two
different points of view -– his and Eddie's? Can
you share any events that you have been involved
in that can be viewed entirely differently, from
another's point of view? How aware are we of
other's experiences of events that happen
simultaneously to us and to them? Why?
10. Discuss what
it means that "That there are no random acts.
That we are all connected. That you can no more
separate one life from another than you can
separate a breeze from the wind." Even though
Eddie hasn't been reincarnated, consider karma
in Eddie's life (where Eddie's actions would
affect his reincarnation). If it isn't karma,
what is Albom telling us about life, and death?
11. Think about
Eddie's war experiences and discuss your
reactions to Albom's evocation of war. What did
Eddie learn by being in war? How did he "come
home a different man"? Why did the captain shoot
Eddie? Explore what it means when the captain
tells Eddie, "I took your leg to save your
life." Why does the captain tell Eddie that
sacrifice is not really a loss, but a gain?
Examine whether or not Eddie understands this,
and the significance of this lesson.
12. Discuss what
you might say to Eddie when he asks "why would
heaven make you relive your own decay?".
13. Examine
whether or not you agree with the old woman when
she tells Eddie, "You have peace when you make
it with yourself," and why. Consider what she
means when she says, "things that happen before
you are born still affect you. And people who
come before your time affect you as well." How
does this relate to Eddie's life? Who are some
who have come before you that have affected your
own life?
14. What is
Eddie's father's response each time Eddie
decides to make an independent move, away from
working at the pier? Examine how Eddie's
father's choices and decisions actually shape
Eddie's life. Why does Eddie cover for his
father at the pier when his father becomes ill?
What happens then? Share your own experience of
a decision your own parents made that affected
your life, for better or for worse.
15. Who tells
Eddie that "we think that hating is a weapon
that attacks the person who harmed us. But
hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do we
do to ourselves"? What is the significance of
this particular person in Eddie's life? Why is
this important for Eddie to understand? Is it
important for all of us to understand? Why?
Discuss whether or not you agree that, "all
parents damage their children. It cannot be
helped." How was Eddie damaged?
16. Why does
Marguerite want to be in a place where there are
only weddings? How does this relate to her own
life, and to her relationship and life with
Eddie?
17. Discuss why
Eddie is angry at his wife for dying so young.
Examine what Marguerite means when she says,
"Lost love is still love. It takes a different
form. You can't see their smile or bring them
food or tousle their hair or move them around on
the dance floor. But when these senses waken,
another heightens. . . . Life has an end. Love
doesn't." Why does she say this to Eddie? Do you
think he gets it? Discuss whether or not you
agree with her, and why.
18. Why does
Eddie come upon the children in the river? What
does Tala mean when she says "you make good for
me"? Discuss whether or not Eddie's life is a
penance, and why. What is the significance of
Tala pulling Eddie to safety after he dies? Why
is it Tala that pulls him to heaven and not one
of the other four?
19. What would
you say to Eddie when he laments that he
accomplished nothing with his life? Discuss what
has he accomplished.
20. Briefly
recall the five lessons Eddie learns. How might
these be important for all of us? Share which
five people might meet you in heaven, and what
additional or different lessons might be
important to your life. Discuss how Albom's
The Five People You Meet in Heaven has
provided you with a different perspective of
your life. |